Higher education (colleges and universities) is the epitome of the aforementioned condition. Too often it teaches "what should be" (at least what someone thinks "should" means) instead of "what is". Hence there is no better time to start talking and facing the truth than at commencement. Here is a hypothetical commencement speech that does just that. Take 10 minutes and enjoy (or throw your hands up in the air and wallow in angry denial... you choose).
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